Hey! I’m Abigail.

I became the Boundaries Queen by having none. I was saying things like: 

“A pandemic? Of course I understand, let’s restructure payments.” 

“This time doesn’t work for you? I don’t usually take calls on Saturdays, but I’ll make an exception.” 

“You want to exchange services? That doesn’t feel great in my body, but I don’t know how to say no--so sure.” 

I slowly and unconsciously eroded the shoreline of my boundaries

until there was no shoreline left. 

I prioritized the comfort of my clients over meeting my needs. 

I set the stage for the playwright of my life that I crafted:

Abigail will always choose someone else. 

Then, it CLICKED

the people pleaser in me had to die so the boundaries queen could be born. 

Boundaries are an internal revolution that take you from lost in others to liberated. 

I want you to find who you are outside of your business. 

I want you to take time off that is truly off. 

I want you to avoid feeling resentful to your clients because the scoreboard feels against your favor. 

Boundaries are more than having Saturday and Sunday off.

& Lack of boundaries show up with different faces to different people...

Boundaries as a scarcity issue: You fear that setting boundaries will impact your income. 

Boundaries as a capitalism scheme: You have been conditioned to be an employee and so setting boundaries feels against what you’ve been taught is success. 

Boundaries as a self trust issue: You know you don’t want to do something, but because you don’t know how to say no--you’re too fast to just settle for “yes”  

Boundaries as a worthiness issue:  You don’t feel you’ve “earned” your boundaries 

Boundaries as a codependency issue: You take on the feelings of others, so if your client has a bad launch, you take those feelings and make them your own. 

Boundaries as a trauma response:  You’d rather avoid sitting in uncomfortable emotions. 

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Who Needs This?

Any online entrepreneur that wants to set boundaries with their clients.